Herabibi's Yap Corner

MONDAYYY!! I have some time before I head out for bingo and I wanted to type up a blog post of a few things i've been going through this past week. Aside from omg ... finally ordering circle lenses. This is just mostly a yap session about some personal things... but if you wanna read anyways feel free!! :D There's two parts of this, one more on the fashion side but then one to two more on the mind side. So for the fashion side ... it all started with a dia setup... well, not really, but something lingering in the back of my head. "How can I be gyaru 100% of the time?" As I still feel like I'm not there 100% of the time yet.  Agejo is still my top substyle and I don't plan on changing it, but I also feel a few things. It doesn't feel like a costume, but still feels like mostly OTT, which can be tiring to do every day, so I only do it a couple of times a week. But also, in my head, I've got Agejo well established(of course, always things to improve on!!!...

It’s a miracle everyone!! I went to the eye doctor!!!!!! (Loud cheering). I’ve joked about it a lot when it comes to getting circle lenses, I have to actually get an appointment for contact lens prescription first, and a glasses prescription!! I have been needing to for awhile since my last pair broke… but I got so caught up in other things I kept putting it off. However!! My roommate EJ went and got an eye assessment and told me there was a place at the mall I could go to, and so I said well… why not! So I actually had it scheduled for the 30th, but I ended up having to reschedule it earlier because they only do contact lens stuff on Mondays and Tuesdays, so I went yesterday!!  It was a pretty simple eye exam, they measured things, and checked my vision. My eyes actually aren’t super bad, so when it comes to lenses they had me put on some non prescription ones but also assigned me some prescription ones to help see a bit better. I told the doc I was interested in color lens and he...

Chat, I got bamboozled yesterday. I knew I would've blogged this code, but it would've been "hehe my friend and are wearing butterfly things today!!!!" EJ and I had discussed this last week, as when I tried on one of my Kyaba dresses EJ said "We should do something spring-y I have a butterfly top!!" and I was like "I HAVE A BUTTERFLY DRESS!!!" and so, thus the code! It's pretty simple, I realized I didn't have good hair accessories but used my floral one. I def need to get into making more bows again. For my hair, I was really inspired by Cindy and Leath!!! I have to hold off on prisilas for awhile but I wanted to go big for tonight to make up for the sample code. I also wore heels but I had a reaaally bad blister so I changed into my platform crocs lol... but this time I remembered nails! I am trying to take more pictures of the looks EJ and I do, once we properly move in and decorate in the next couple months I want to set up a perfect pi...

 Hi Chat!! I honestly wanted to blog about this weekend and there's going to be a lot of blabbing about bingo and casinos at the end, but I can also talk about the floral fits I wore this weekend! I hadn't worn my florals in a bit, and I had lunch plans with my friend Dab on Saturday, so I put together a quick and a bit more simple outfit. I have been experimenting with lace front wigs as I am too lazy to dye my hair... it seems this color is a hit! I really liked it, it's giving Iori from idolmaster (I'm not super duper into it but I do like her design lol). I already bought some dye to re-blonde myself for summer, but I might try this color again in the future.  Lace fronts are painful and I'm still very new to them, but I definitely want to try to make them work more. Once we are properly moved in I want to get more into wig styling.  This ma*rs set is super cute, but the white part is sheet so it comes off more light pink, and I realized I don't have a lot o...

 I really don’t have a lot this week chat. Saturday I should be dressing up and Sunday is a special birthday bingo! But this week I woke up starting Monday in extreme exhaustion, and then have been working on my apartment moving shenanigans which I am further behind than I’d like to be. But today’s blog is a little vulnerable kind of blog. The fear of moving on from gal. Don’t worry! I won’t, I plan to keep this going, but I have this issue where I tend to hyperfocus on one big thing and throw myself at it while not focusing on other things. I’ve picked up a lot of my interests change depending on a shift in mental health cycle, and I went through a really rough cycle back in 2024, and it’s shifted recently which I won’t go into detail but… therapy is helping me process it. For gal though, it’s kind of smart with how big my closet has gotten, I don’t need to feel pressure to spend money, I just have to keep pushing myself to wear the clothes. I think with mental health and physical...

Hiii chat! I've decided i'm calling you all chat now... even though I am not a streamer lol. Today I was brought over with extreme fatigue and I ended up taking the day off and I laid down for a few hours, and I'm going to be cancelling a lot of plans this evening so I can rest tonight.  To keep myself not bed rotting, I'm taking advantage of I have something to blog about!! The GGxGalz set that recently came out! This has been on my radar for awhile so I was very excited!! I wanted to actually take it out for a wear before I blogged it and I was able to on Saturday!  I also plan on attempting to wash this later this week with some other gal items, so I will make an update on how it washes. I also want to before I go in, recc you also read Cindy's blog on this for another insight! We all have different thoughts and Cindy brought up some great points I kept in mind when wearing mine out for the first time!!! For ordering, it was on Etsy which was pretty straightforw...

Hello chat… I figured it might be good to just document my past week since moving into my apartment, also my attempts to gal out more! This will be a long one. I have to type this all on my phone because I did not bring any of my laptops back to my apartment lmao… I am trying to do this new thing where I don’t give a lot of context before I get to the point too, so maybe I won’t ramble as much hehe Mondayyyyy - I am working from my parents still, lots of working and packing! I drove back in the late afternoon, my roomie and I got some stuff she left at her friends place, and then I went to Monday night Bingo!! It is now only a 15 min drive vs a 30, I got to see many friends, and won 0 money… lol Tuesday - work, move, bed rot… tried replicating Cindy’s hair… nothing too crazy but god was it about to be Wednesday - KARAOKE DAY!!!!!! The first karaoke Wednesday since we moved in. I was so excited to put on some genuine agejo again. I wore my golds infinity dress which is suuuper cute hehe...

WOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! A new blog post. amazing. I don't have many pictures... my blogs are mostly text based lmaooooo but it's all good. Today I wanted to blog about my closet in further detail!!! I've shared it on insta and the reddit, but I like using my blog for the huuuuge rambles. Below is a picture of how it's currently looking!!  It is really nice!! My room has a walk in closet, but I am repurposing it as my office space since I work from home, so I am using the dresser the previous tenant left for non gal clothes, and then I bought myself this closet to assemble for gal clothes!! At my parents house, I had two closets and a rack I used, so it's nice to get all the pieces into one place. It also fits perfectly between my door to my office and the door I use to leave, and once I get my proper bed in there, there will still be space to walk!!! 😁 I was so thankful my friend Jordan carried the box of all the pieces up the stairs, I have no arm strength so this wo...

 This feels like... important to make public because 1) important to cover my ass in the case this seller makes a callout (i doubt it) and 2) to talk about lessons learned from depop because I can be stupid and too nice! I'm not going to bring up the sellers name bc 1) the shop no longer exists, and 2) I don't want to send them any hate, something could've happened who knows. The TLDR: Brenna was way to patient when it comes to depop and almost lost a lot of money over my DREAM DREAM DREAM DISO. But I got my money back. The more detailed version...  I was trying to find my dream piece on a whim for christmas, as I usually spend a stupid amount on dream pieces (the pink and white alba rosa was my 2023 xmas gift to myself). Well, I found someone selling it on depop, and I made a depop account!! I actually am herabibi on there. Yes, that is me. I reached out to the seller, I purchased the piece, and I waited for my shipping e-mail. Well, I got it from depop saying it shipped b...